Friday, July 31, 2009

The Perfect Storm

We are calling the month of July the "perfect storm" in our house. We moved here, got enough settled that we could survive Mark studying for the bar, and got into a routine with the kids and work. I even pulled off a trip to Maine for one of my high school friend's wedding, the weekend of July 4th--all by myself!

My girls from highschool-Go Posse!

I forgot how cold it can get in Maine, even in the middle of the summer.
Yes, that is the bride wrapped up with us in the dirty blanket.


Starting the Monday I got back we felt prepared enough for Mark to start studying 9am-9pm. As soon as he stopped coming home, my job that has been perfectly "slow' for the last 4 months kicked in. I really don't know how we survived. I had one of the busiest months of work that I have had in the past year. Luckily my sister Heather was in and out of our house the month of July, so she spent a lot of time watching MTV (or whatever it is teenagers watch these days) with the kids crawling around/on her. Our house officially didn't get cleaned for the last two weeks of this month. But Mark is done now, and we are so happy!

All the kids had check ups this month.

Katie had her three year. She was 29.8 lbs and 36 1/2 in tall.

Marcus and Addy had their 9 month (a couple weeks late)
Marcus was 22.5lbs and 28 1/2 ins--this puts him in the 75th percentile for both weight and height, Mark is so proud. Marcus is now crawling. After studying Addy for a while it took him a week total to get up on his knees and start moving. He says "Mama" and "Dada" and means us. He has two teeth on the bottom. He was a cranky little boy the whole weekend I was in Maine--we thought it was just teething but when I came home he started being an angel again. My little boy loves his Mama.

Addy was 19.9 lbs and 28 ins-she is in the 50th for weight and 75th for height. Addy is pulling up on everything and can walk along stuff, she lets go every once in a while. We have great hopes of her walking if she can get off her tip toes. I think she spent a little too much time in the bouncer and jumperoo because when we hold her hand to try to help her stand she jumps. She has two teeth on the bottom and one on the top. She still doesn't say any words.

While Mark was in Raleigh taking the bar Flossie came down with her kids and Scotia and hung out for a couple days. We went outlet shopping with Sarah and Talia. Three moms, 6kids and 2 teenagers does not make for a fun trip. I think we almost went crazy. The next day we laid low and just went swimming.

Katie holding cousin Cooper-Addy is trying to get in on the action. Addy could never tell if he was real or not-she was always thrown off that he would cried when she grabbed his face

Carson showing his mom what he is going to wear for the day-a pink shirt and pink skirt, Katie sure has a talent for helping other kids get dressed

I finally got pictures at the pool--only because Flossie brought her camera. (This is where me and the kids played all summer.)

Katie and Carson on the slide

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Happy Birthday Katie V. -July 2

Another year has come and gone. I can't believe that my Katie is 3 years old. It seems like just yesterday we were pushing her around in the stroller to get her to stop crying, now we can't get her to stop talking. I remember trying to get her to say "ma ma", now she speaks full, intelligent sentences and counts to 13 (next comes 18, 21), and when she wants to, she knows her ABC's and how to spell her name ("k", "a", "t"" what comes next?... I don't know"). She loved being an only child but graciously moved into the big sister role. She loves to create things and pretend, she loves to read books. She asks me to define words or phrases that she doesn't understand. She is stubborn and independent and feisty and loving and unbelievably kind. Basically to sum it all up we love Katie, our family wouldn't be the same without her amazing personality.

To celebrate her 3rd birthday we kicked it off with a Birthday Eve party with my family at a park in between my house and theirs; my mom and younger siblings, Flossie and kids, and Crystal and kids came to join the fun.

Carson and Gabby are on the other end

Marcus and Addy hanging in the swings

Baleigh trying to entertain Marcus and Addy

Gabby and Katie picking out which cupcake they want

Baleigh, Karleigh, Seth, Gabby and Emmie

Scotia and Addy

Marcus enjoying my cupcake (I think Katie took these last two pictures)

After lunch and cupcakes all the kids found their way down to the river
Katie, Gabby, Alisa, Carson, Emmie and Cohen
Yes, Katie took her pants off!



The next morning was the big day that we have been talking about for months...Katie's birthday!

It started with breakfast and then opening some presents from us and then some that Grammy and Grandpa sent her.

Katie has been asking for Thomas the Train and train tracks for longer then we have been talking about her birthday. She got Thomas and George and a bunch of cars. Then we took her upstairs for the real surprise...

She was so excited!

Then we made her birthday cake
Katie (wearing the outfit she got the day before from cousin Karleigh) helped out with the whisk from her kitchen--it gave her an extra thing to lick.

Mark came home early from studying for the bar and we took Katie to see the movie "Up". My sister Heather watched Marcus and Addy for us.
After the movie and picking up balloons we were ready for the main event.

Talia came to help celebrate

Addy is ready to eat some of the cake

Happy Daddy's Day-June 21

We love Mark. He is a favorite of the kids. He wishes he was with us when he is gone. When he is home he spends his time cooking or cleaning or changing diapers or eating the food Katie makes him in her kitchen or playing hide and seek with Addy or wrestling with Marcus or just trying to make me happy. He is doing a good job!

Katie after her Daddy's Day art project.





Her project in our tomato garden.

When Mom's away



Mark has been threatening to do this for a while,
I took Katie to the pool and came home to this.

Marcus has a new face to go with his tough image.

Casa loca a mi casa

My parents took off the beginning of June to go to Guatemala to try to get the orphanage up and running again. The same week Sarah and Adam took off for Youth Conference with our church youth group. I became a single mom of 7 (Mark is studying for the bar--we can't distract him). I had Emmie (10), Alisa(9), Tony(7) and Talia(2), to add to my three. You would think being raised in the house I was raised in, this week wouldn't have fazed me, but it was unbelievably hard. Needless to say we didn't go anywhere that we couldn't walk.

Playing in the sprinklers

Watching the craziness

Sandbox fun with Talia
Thank goodness for the huge play room we have in our new home, and that my little siblings are willing to play with baby and toddler toys!

Addy and Katie in the doll's pack n' play

Marcus watching Tony play football

The silly girls on a good day--Katie put her pink dress on Tali over her shirt and jeans, Katie is a strong believer in layering your clothes and she is trying to pass this knowledge on.

We spent a lot of time at the kiddie pool (there are no pictures, because I don't have enough hands to hold onto Marcus and Addy and take pictures).

Right before Sarah and Adam took off we went to Monkey Joes, which is a huge inflatable play house, it was lots of fun. Sarah and I took Marcus and Addy down some of the slides--they were pretty scared.
Alisa and Tony

Emmie and Katie

And for all of you asking if we are going to have more kids...the answer is now more then ever..."NO"!