The girl who cried wolf...or the case of the bad mommy?

Everyday around 2pm I put the twins down for a nap (or a "jump in their cribs" depending on if they are tired or not) and send Katie to 'quiet time'. This is my last chance of the day to get any un-interrupted work done.

On this particular day I was talking on the phone in my room. I heard Katie yelling "mommy". Now when Katie is in quiet time, she is in her own little world of "playing mommy" or "princess". More then once I have responded to a call of "mommy", only to be given a look that I have interrupted a pretty important imagination and Katie telling me that she wasn't talking to me.

So when I heard her calling "mommy" I didn't think much of it and kept chatting away (it wasn't even a work call!). After about 10 mins, I realized she was still calling out "mommy", let me defend myself at this point and say that it wasn't a consistent "mommy, mommy, mommy"; it was more of a "mommy" wait a minute or two and then "mommy". Anyway after about 20 mins I was off the phone and decided she was going to wake up Marcus and Addy if she didn't quiet down so I went in her room to tell her so. This is how I found her.

After I told her to be quiet, she said ok but can you please help me get out.

20 mins of me laughing and chatting on the phone with my friend, and she had fallen into her baby doll pack-n-play and couldn't get out.

It's beginning...

I have always loved Christmas, but I never new how much fun it could be until I had little kids. They get so excited and love EVERYTHING about it.

Thanksgiving weekend we decorated the house and put up the tree.

This past weekend we went on a "Journey to Bethlehem" at a local church with some friends. They tell a 'live' story of Christ's birth as you walk through--it started with the angel telling Mary that she would be the mother of Jesus and ended with the scene of His birth. On the way we had to pay taxes in Bethlehem, we got to pet some baby animals and take a gift to baby Jesus.

Hanging out in Bethlehem (Marcus, Katie, Addy and Ella)

Being blessed

Angel's proclaiming to the shepherds

Marcus and Mark

Katie in front of the highlight--baby Jesus!

On Saturday Katie and I went to see the Nutcracker Youth Ballet. Katie was SOOOO excited to get dressed up and go watch the ballerinas. She was also pretty excited that I bought little bags of candy for us to eat during the show. She spent most the time picking out what ballerina she wanted to be--which of course changed every time a new dancer entered the stage.

Sitting on our coats so that she can see better

The kids are practicing for their Christmas program at school, they like to take bells off the tree and sing Jingle Bells--and then they just get a little crazy.

Please notice Ah-Ah's (Marcus' name for his monkey) glasses, that is the point of this picture, Marcus was pretty proud of himself.

Christmas 2010

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Thanksgiving...

We had a very low key Thanksgiving this year. The kids didn't have school all week and luckily work usually slows down around the Holidays so I was able to focus on having fun with the kids and working during their nap time. Right down the street is a great park with hiking trails and a lake. The trails are flat so the kids can walk/run them.

There is a small sandy patch of beach with shells. Some ducks came to visit us this time. We brought lunch and ate it on the rocks and had a little bread left over to feed the ducks.

Mark only got Thursday and Friday off (I know, welcome to real life, right!) so we decided to stay in Charlotte this year. Hannah came down and spent the weekend with us.

I know I've said before that my kids love Hannah, but really they do. Addy and Katie did not leave her side the whole time she was here. Today in the car I mentioned Hannah's name to the kids and Marcus said "I want Hannah." (This coming from the same little boy who has decided that he is in a bad mood today and has literally said 15 words to me ALL day).


Hannah, Addy, Katie, Marcus & Me
We bought a 18lb turkey for the 6 of us to eat and still have leftovers, but no one is complaining yet. We made lots of other yummy food and stuffed ourselves all weekend. Hannah and I did some Black Friday shopping and we all laid around and were lazy!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Life as we know it...

I feel like I have gotten really bad at this blogging thing, it might have something to do with the fact that I am now a single parent 4 1/2 days out of the week . . . although now that I put that in writing it doesn't sound as bad. But really, I put the kids to bed by myself Monday through Thursday. And at the end of everything, I don't feel like doing anything. If you notice the date on this post, I started it quite a while ago, now I am just trying to finish it before the start of December.

So some of the things I was supposed to blog about when I was in the "single parent,working with too many birthmothers and adoptive families and now doing fundraising for the orphanage mode . . . "

Mark's job is going well. We have kinda gotten into a grove and gotten used to the long hours (if that is possible). We get in lots of family time in the mornings and on the weekends. Marcus is taking it harder than the girls. He doesn't leave Mark's side on the weekends.

We celebrated Mark's birthday on the 13th. Katie was pretty excited to help me make the cinnamon rolls that Mark requested this year. Everybody had lots of fun eating them. I made too big of a batch and we talked about giving some away but then decided it would be better to go ahead and start gaining that Holiday weight--so Mark and I ate them all (well, the kids had a few).

We had a little mini-Maine reunion a couple weeks ago when my best friend's (from Maine) parents were in town. Their son Dan lives nearby so all three of them stopped by to say high and to play Nani and Papa (until their kids can start producing for them--hint hint Nate). My kids didn't mind at all, accepting presents and showing off comes natural to them.

The weather has been amazing this fall. This is why we moved here. We have spent so much time playing outside. The leaves have started falling and we have been waiting and waiting to get enough leaves to make a big pile, we are almost there.

Marcus and John
(Have I ever mentioned how much we love our neighbors, we have lots of friends for the girls at church, but seem to be missing someone for Marcus--and now we have John!)

Can you help...?

Ok, I am going to force this post on you, by emailing it out to most of my contacts. Most of you know my background and know about the organization my parents started in Guatemala 6 years ago. We are currently helping the Mayan Indians, so many of which, have been devastated by mudslides from Hurricane Agatha. Safe Homes for Children is focusing on community programs and trying to help the Mayan people better themselves by encouraging education. We provide school lunch (sometimes the only meal they get to eat that day), provide tutoring and some other programs which you can read about here.

Among the Mayan Indians the average age to drop out of school is 12, not because they don't want to continue, but because it costs money for uniforms, supplies and enrollment that their families don't have. How can they change things for their children? How can they end the poverty that they live in? How are they supposed to have a better life then their parents if they don't receive an education?

Go here (http://casadesion.blogspot.com/)and look at the kids and to get more information. I know that most of the people that read this blog are not wealthy, but with Christmas time coming near, it is a good time to search out those in need.

You can pick a kid to sponsor for this upcoming academic year, or throughout the rest of their schooling (yearly), you can split a sponsor with someone if you need to (let me know and I will take care of it). I am very involved in everything in Guatemala so you can come to me for an update at anytime. Their school year is different then ours (runs January to October), so the money is needed in the next month or these kids will not move on to middle school.

Cuteness galore...

The Sanofsky family loves Halloween, Mark and I started dating around Halloween 7 years ago--7 years and 3 kids, wow that is fast right? It was even more shocking when we had only known each other for 5 years and had 3 kids!
Halloween started this year with a costume parade at the kids preschool, I knew what the kids were going to dress up as but I was a little behind on getting the details together so Addy and Katie wore different costumes. I had to bribe Marcus with candy to get him to put his on.

Then Friday night our church had a 'trunk or treat'. Addy wasn't feeling well so she wouldn't put her costume on--there is no bribing Addy, either she does it or she doesn't. It took the kids two cars to learn exactly how it works and they were hooked.

She was cute enough to get candy anyway.

Saturday we carved a pumpkin with the kids.

The big day.

Here we have Addy as 'Princess Tiana' (Princess and the Frog) and Katie as her sidekick 'Lotte,' Marcus was supposed to be the frog prince but we could not find a frog costume anywhere, so he is the alligator 'Louis' (ignore the fact that he has wings--which would really make him a dragon).

With the 'trunk or treat' fresh in their minds, they didn't need much help. Addy and Marcus would follow Katie to the door, she would ring the bell. They would hold out their little pumpkins for the candy and say "trick or treat" (Marcus and Addy to the best of their ability-sooo cute!). Addy was a sneaky little one and would slip her hand in their bowl while they were giving Katie and Marcus candy and kept taking candy until they (or I stopped her).

After an hour and a half they were all tired so we came home and hung out with our neighbors in the driveway handing out candy until bedtime.

Our neighbor, John